Today’s Song: The Empathetic Beauty of Dresses’ “Catch”

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Independent guy/girl duo Dresses found their way into my heart with the playful pop melodies and enchanting vocal harmonies of their dreamy debut album Sun Shy (via SideOneDummy) in late 2013. They solidified their place the following summer with an intimate acoustic performance at The Studio at Webster Hall in New York. A full year later, the Portland, Oregon-based Dresses are finally stepping back into the limelight, offering new original material that reminds me instantly why I fell for them the first time.

“Catch” is the first of two new Dresses songs, released by the band in late August. A bouncy, beat-driven tune, “Catch” finds Dresses’ Jared Ryan Maldonado (guy) and Timothy Heller (girl) characteristically singing in unison amid an assortment of bright guitars and cheerful claps. Also in typical Dresses fashion, the song’s optimistic aura and good-timesy feel belie the deeper emotions of its personal, introspective subject matter:

I’m not quite the man I said I’d be
And over the paper, your glance disappointed me
How am I supposed to run to you?
How am I gonna lay my body down?
I don’t know the words to make
Make you leave your weapons on the ground

Romantic (and even platonic) relationships rely on a plethora of factors to stay afloat, not the least of which are trust, empathy, and understanding. “Catch” captures an instance of disconnect as the narrator relates insecurities and worries that stem from the fallout of these key ingredients. “How am I supposed to run to you?” the narrator asks. “I don’t know the words to make you leave your weapons on the ground.” How do I get through to you? What is this barrier you’ve put up? What are you holding back from me – and why?

These sort of questions have haunted any one of a set of partners going through a rough patch. Clear communication is vital in any situation, for without it, things break down. Dresses address this notion with beautifully sweet metaphor in the chorus:

Don’t wanna be another one that you throw back
This is a two-way street, not a culdesac
And if I threw my heart and made a pass
Would your hands reach out when I said “Catch”

Catch - Dresses

Catch – Dresses

The words are simple, yet their depth is resonant. “We need to be open and honest with each other,” pleads the narrator. The two-way street/culdesac comparison visualizes the couple’s emotional blockage. Yet it is the chorus’ final line that hits the hardest: “If I threw my heart and made a pass, would your hands reach out when I said, ‘Catch’?” Will you be there for me when I need you? Can I lean on you, when I’m not strong? The flowery instrumentation peaks at the chorus with background chants and busy guitars that contrast directly with Timothy Heller’s raw lead vocals, creating an odd tension that destabilizes the song. The juxtaposition between the lyrics and the encapsulating music could not be more obvious.

Thus is the brilliance of Dresses: Just as humans are wont to disguise their inner demons with a happy face, “Catch” masks itself with cheerful music. The upside to this is that it propels the optimistic hope for stable resolution, reminding listeners that all is not lost. As long as these important questions are asked outwardly and not kept silently to one’s chest, the ties that bind a strong relationship – trust, empathy, and understanding – may return, and the relationship may blossom once more. With its universal message and uplifting folksy indie pop, “Catch” is an easy song to fall in love with and a perfect (re)introduction to Dresses as they reinstate themselves in the flourishing indie folk/pop world as Oregon’s cutest and quirkiest musical duo. Simply put, they make songwriting look easy.

Listen: “Catch” – Dresses

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“Catch” – Dresses

lyrics

I’m not quite the man I said I’d be
And over the paper, your glance disappointed me
How am I supposed to run to you?
How am I gonna lay my body down?
I don’t know the words to make
Make you leave your weapons on the ground

Don’t wanna be another one that you throw back
This is a two-way street, not a culdesac
And if I threw my heart and made a pass
Would your hands reach out when I said “Catch”
Don’t wanna be another one that you throw back
This is a two-way street, not a culdesac
And if I threw my heart and made a pass
Would your hands reach out when I said “Catch”

I look into your eyes and it gets to me
Won’t you take off your disguise, I just wanna see
How I’m gonna run to you
How I’m gonna lay my body down
I wanna know the words to make
Make you leave your weapons on the ground

Cause we’re stuck in an elevator
Lights go out, I can’t escape
Blot you out like liquid paper
I want you to know

Don’t wanna be another one that you throw back
This is a two-way street, not a culdesac
And if I threw my heart and made a pass
Would your hands reach out when I said “Catch”
Don’t wanna be another one that you throw back
This is a two-way street, not a culdesac
And if I threw my heart and made a pass
Would your hands reach out when I said “Catch”

Don’t wanna be another one that you throw back
This is a two-way street, not a culdesac
And if I threw my heart and made a pass
Would your hands reach out when I said “Catch”
Don’t wanna be another one that you throw back
This is a two-way street, not a culdesac
And if I threw my heart and made a pass
Would your hands reach out when I said “Catch”

Mitch is the Editor-in-Chief of Atwood Magazine and a 2014 graduate from Tufts University, where he pursued his passions of music and psychology. He currently works at Universal Music Group in New York City. In his off hours, Mitch may be found songwriting, wandering about one of New York's many neighborhoods, or writing an article on your next favorite artist for Atwood. Mitch's words of wisdom to fellow musicians and music lovers are thus: Keep your eyes open and never stop exploring. No matter where you go, what you do or who you are with, you can always learn something new and inspire something amazing. Say hi here: mitch[at]atwoodmagazine[dot]com