Premiere: Queer Connection in a Digital World with Gregory Dillon’s “Alien Boyfriend”

Gregory Dillon © Curtis S. Brown
Gregory Dillon © Curtis S. Brown
Gregory Dillon explores online relationships through a metaphorical sci-fi lens in his ’80s-tinged synthpop love song “Alien Boyfriend.”

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The prevalence of loneliness was supposed to dull with the internet age. Somehow, it’s only increased with the ability to be in constant digital contact. The theoretical chance of connecting with millions of humans online makes it that much more frustrating when it doesn’t happen. Gregory Dillon explores online relationships through a metaphorical sci-fi lens that reminisces on his own experiences in “Alien Boyfriend.” The result is an infectious, ’80s-tinged synthpop love song, dedicated to the boy he was hoping to meet through his computer screen.

Stream: “Alien Boyfriend” – Gregory Dillon
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Atwood Magazine is proud to premiere “Alien Boyfriend” (out February 8, 2019), the third single off Gregory Dillon’s forthcoming debut album Send Me Letters. A ’90s New England kid now anchored in New York, Dillon hopes to win hearts with his sensitive, 80’s inspired sound. His latest is drenched in emotion, albeit a little lighter and more playful than his previous releases.

“‘Alien Boyfriend’ is the synth pop equivalent of the movie Contact, revamped into my boyhood coming-out fantasy,” Dillon tells Atwood Magazine. “I think back to my last year of high school, scanning through the channels of an infamous chat site, hoping I’d find a boy who would understand me.”

Alien Boyfriend - Gregory Dillon
Alien Boyfriend – Gregory Dillon

Although the track addresses millennial age issues, it’s inspired by Dillon’s childhood fascination with the space race of the 1960s. The lyrics dive headfirst into science fiction metaphors, centering on an astronomer scanning the stars for signs of extraterrestrial life.

Radio waves
Been scanning through all night
Sifting through haze
Looking for an outbound satellite

Like many confused kids of the 90’s, Dillon used the internet to explore his sexuality and early relationships in general. It was the medium with the lowest stakes and highest opportunity from the start, and that remains true for young queer people today. Whether someone is looking for information, validation, love or a hookup, the internet is where the LGBTQ community turns first. It’s the place where we’re most likely to be found, heard, and understood.

Gregory Dillon © Curtis S. Brown
Gregory Dillon © Curtis S. Brown
Thirty days of hope, longingly I stare
Waiting for reply, but nothing’s there
‘Bout leave the room when
frequency divides the air

The landscape of online dating has changed drastically since Dillon was first searching, now dominated by mobile apps instead of online profiles and chat rooms. Still, the desire for connection and acceptance remains the same. Dillon’s lighthearted but sincere reminiscence will hit home amongst the queer community and beyond.

“I continued following a trail of dead-end encounters until I nearly gave up,” Dillon says. “Right before I was about to sign off my computer, I remember this boy appeared up on my screen, and from 300 miles away, I came out to him and fell in love.”

It’s a relatable story for anyone who’s felt lonely in an overpopulated world.

Dillon’s ability to mold it into a fun song with genuine feeling speaks to both his emotional and musical intelligence. That fact rings even truer considering he only made his official debut in June of 2018. The beautifully romantic and ethereal track “Alone with You” lead the way, followed by the brooding “Painted Blue” in October.

Feel my makeshift heartbeat
Violet high beams in your eye
Be my alien boyfriend
racing through the night

The playful lyrics on “Alien Boyfriend” are a breath of fresh air amongst heavy handed motifs and melancholy themes, and it pairs perfectly with the bouncy instrumentals.

Dillon’s penchant for heartfelt melodies and vibrant soundscapes carries through seamlessly, and will undoubtedly continue on the rest of the upcoming LP, due this spring. The bright synths, echoed vocals and stadium drums create a sentimental feeling of euphoric hope and earnest young love we could all use more of right now. It will be a joy to discover more of Gregory Dillon’s color splashed world, and we can’t wait to hear more.

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